"An advisor who doesn't restrict himself to the mere game of in-and-out, but, along with practical tips, also offers extensive reflection on what's going on mentally and physically before, after, and during. Bravo!"—Uptown

Even among gay men, anal sex can involve a lot of anxieties: Will it hurt? Will I be able to relax? Will I enjoy it? Am I saying something about myself as a gay man if I'm the passive sex partner? What's the risk of infection? Plenty of questions—and not only for beginners.

Bend Over: The Complete Guide to Anal Sex for Men finally sheds light into the pleasures of anal penetration from a reader-friendly, sex-positive point of view. Included in this comprehensive book written for newcomers and the experienced alike are chapters on anatomy, cultural taboos, preparation, technique, positions, sex toys, shaving, frequently asked questions, solo sex vs. partnered sex, S/M, and more.

Stephan Niederwieser is an author and sex educator whose titles include Blow Me and Do It Yourself.